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Wednesday, September 30
Word of the Gay: "2QT2BSTR8"
Web Spotlight: TV Gayed
National Equality March Route Set
Gather on 15th Street at “I” (Eye) Street – we will be staging in the street and 15th between “I” Street and “M” Street will be closed for this purpose. The March will kick off from 15th and I Street, right near McPherson Square (Metro stops close by are at McPherson Square, Farragut West – both Blue and Orange Lines, and Farragut North – Red Line)
From there we go South on 15th to “H” Street
West on “H” Street to 17th Street
South on 17th Street to Pennsylvania Avenue (closed portion)
Pennsylvania Avenue (closed portion) – right past the White House – to 15th Street
South on 15th Street to Pennsylvania Avenue South
East on Pennsylvania Avenue South, all the way to the U.S. Capitol West Lawn for the National Equality March Rally.
The approximate distance is 2.33 miles from start to finish. Be sure and get your Metro passes as soon as you get into town, to avoid hour long lines that form at the ticket kiosks during larger demonstrations. http://www.wmata.com/
Get a Maine Marriage License!
The reason it's important to do this is because the state likely will not be able to deny marriages existing before any potential bans take place. Also, recognized same-sex marriages are an opportunity for court battles to re-open marriage equality to all couples.
If you are interested in purchasing a Maine marriage license go here.
Tuesday, September 29
Word of the Gay: "Bisexuality-Aware"
Want a Free Queers United Widget?
http://www.widgetbox.com/widget/queers-united
Organizational Spotlight: Bisexual Butterfly
Memphis to Rally Against Desecrated Gay Rights Billboard
A rally is planned for 1 pm on Sunday at First Congregational Church at 1000 S. Cooper Street in Memphis.
Monday, September 28
Word of the Gay: "Batty Boy"
Rapper Warren G Wants You to Know Your Place
"I ain’t against gay people. I’m just against it being promoted to kids...I know people that’s gay. My wife’s got friends that are gay. I got family that’s gay. Cousins and shit. He cool as fuck. He cool as a motherfucker. He’s my homie. I just mean that on some of these TV shows, they got dudes kissing. And kids are watching that shit. We can’t have kids growing up with that...I know it happens, but let’s keep it behind the scenes. Ain’t nothin’ wrong with it if that’s what two dudes wanna do. Cool. But that’s not bring that out into the world, where the kids can see that. We don’t want all the kids doing that. ‘Cause that ain’t how we was originally put here to do. Like I said, I ain’t got no problem with the gays" (Vanity Fair).So seeing gay people leads us to become gay? Well there's a new theory. If Warren G claims he has no problem with gays, and has gay friends and family, tell him to get his story straight.
Contact him at his website by clicking the bottom right contact tab.
Campaign to Knight Computer Scientist Alan Turing
Prime Minister Gordon Brown recently made a public apology saying that:
"While Turing was dealt with under the law of the time and we can't put the clock back, his treatment was of course utterly unfair and I am pleased to have the chance to say how deeply sorry I and we all are for what happened to him. On behalf of the British government, and all those who live freely thanks to Alan's work I am very proud to say: we're sorry, you deserved so much better."Click here to learn how to nominate someone for an honor by the Queen.
Sunday, September 27
National Gay Men's HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (9.27.09)
NGMAHAD's goals are to 1) raise awareness about HIV/AIDS among gay men, 2) encourage HIV testing, early diagnosis and linkage to care, 3) promote better understanding of the complex factors that drive HIV transmission among gay men, and 4) obtain broad based support to acquire needed public and private resources and sound governmental policies to prevent new infections among gay men and to provide treatment for gay men living with HIV/AIDS.
* Fifty-three percent of new HIV infections occurred among men who have sex with men (MSM) in 2006Fact sheet for National Gay Men's HIV/AIDS Awareness Day.
* From 2001 – 2006, men who have sex with men (MSM) across all racial and ethnic groups were the only transmission category with significant increases in HIV diagnoses
* HIV incidence has been increasing steadily among gay and bisexual men since the early 1990s, consistent with increases in risk behavior, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), and HIV diagnoses among MSM
* Gay men comprise over half of the total number of total HIV/AIDS cases in the United States
* More than 500,000 gay men of all colors have died in the United States. (NAPWA).
Help out by blogging, using widgets, or banners on your own site to promote the day.
Saturday, September 26
Shameless Self Promotion Sunday
Word of the Gay: "Heterosocial"
Open Forum: Does Heterophobia Exist?
When gay people choose to isolate themselves and only associate with others like themselves, do some develop a sense of anger and frustration at the heterosexual majority?
There have even been isolated incidents of straight couples being verbally attacked by gay people screaming "breeder" at them and demanding they leave the gay village.
What about when a bisexual chooses a mate of the opposite sex, they are considered a traitor to the gay community even though they still remain in their bisexual identity.
There are also those who feel that certain efforts for marriage equality to be extended to same-sex couples, that deny granting benefits to unmarried heterosexuals is tantamount to being heterophobic.
So does heterophobia exist, is it growing, or is it a stretch?
Friday, September 25
Word of the Gay: "Fruit Machine"
Tell Apple Computers to Pull Transphobic Ad
"The ad features model Gisele Bundchen, who is supposed to be the embodiment of a home movie made using iMovie. After the Mac presents Gisele, the PC presents a person wearing a dress identical to Gisele’s, in a wig, with no breasts, a five o’clock shadow and an abundance of exposed chest hair" (GLAAD).
GLAAD has reached out to Apple and urged them to pull the ad, please follow suit:
http://www.apple.com/contact/
No on 1 TV Ad: "All Families"
Thursday, September 24
Word of the Gay: "Passable"
An Open Letter to the Mennonite Church USA
Anyone can sign onto the petition, but obviously people in positions of leadership hold the most weight.
http://www.openlettertomcusa.org/
Diversity Lesson 101: Questioning
What is questioning?
This term within the context of the queer community refers to people who are questioning their sexual orientation, gender identity or both. They may be experimenting with their feelings and attractions to see what identity would best describe them. The letter "Q" is sometimes added to the acronym LGBTA for this category.
How can someone not know what they are?
Identity politics is a complicated subject, some people feel they easily mold into labels and others feel that they may embrace some attributes of a label but not others. Some people are afraid to take on a label due to the real or perceived consequences that may result. Others generally feel that they are a mix of things and accept that their lives are full of unanswered questions that likely wont be resolved.
Is questioning a sexual identity?
This is a topic that has been debated and will likely go on within the queer community. The answer is yes if you believe that a temporary phase of questioning identity is in itself an identity for a given time period. Also, for those who do question for life or prolonged periods of time, it is their sexual identity to question sexuality and gender. People who are questioning fall into a unique subset because they acknowledge that they don't automatically fall into the heteronorm, but at the same time they don't necessarily accept or feel that they are queer. To be questioning is to feel that you are somewhere in between these two realms and that in itself can be considered an identity.
Are questioning people confused?
Some are confused due to a host of variables such as religion, culture, and societal pressure. Others simply find that our society is heavily reliant on labels that just don't fit neatly to each individual. The process of questioning sexual and gender identity is not confusion, it is normal and healthy. Whether one is gay, straight, asexual or somewhere in between we all question our understanding of sexuality throughout life.
How do you come out if you don't have a label?
It is best to come out sharing who you honestly feel you are. You can choose to come out with the identity that seems to fit the most, or you can simply admit that you are questioning or curious. Don't worry about the judgment or perception of others, you need to do whats spiritually right for yourself. Some questioning people prefer to use ambiguous terminology to refer to their identity and/or a partner such as lover, partner, significant other, friend with benefits, etc. When asked what their sexual identity is they simply say their name, or that they like who they like and keep it at that, have fun with it!
Coping with an uncertain sexual identity:
1. You acknowledge each attraction when it happens, rather than trying to stifle any natural feelings.
2. You look for a pattern in your attractions. This will point you towards your natural sexuality.
3. You do not deny what you know. If you are homosexual or bisexual, don’t try to convince yourself that you are heterosexual. All that will result is a lot of headaches.
4. You embrace questioning. If you are not ready to classify yourself as a specific sexuality, then don’t.
5. You seek support. If you feel isolated due to your sexuality, look around your local, regional or even national or international community for organizations that will support your lifestyle.
6. You take yourself seriously. Announcing your sexuality to anyone who will listen isn’t necessary. Show your maturity by respecting yourself and your relationships and giving them the attention and privacy that they deserve.
7. You are honest with yourself and others. If you realize that you are a particular sexual identity, don’t keep it a secret from those you love. Remember, given time almost anyone can adjust to almost anything (Teen Issues).
Resources for the Q population.
Recommended Reads:
The Full Spectrum: A New Generation of Writing About Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning, and Other Identities - David Levithan
GLBTQ: The Survival Guide for Queer and Questioning Teens - Kelly Huegel
Coming Out Every Day: Gay, Bisexual, or Questioning Man's Guide - Bret Johnson
Link of Interest:
Planned Parenthood - LGBT and Questioning.
Questioning Your Sexual Orientation.
For Individuals Who Are "Questioning"
Using the Questioning Label
Videos of Interest:
Demand Justice for Abused Argentinian Trans Man
The next year, on April 10, 2009, Ian was verbally abused by David Martin Albarran, who grabbed him by his hair, dragged him around, beat him, and then finally threw him against the window, causing Ian serious injuries. Ian had three tendons cut in his right foot, his ribs cracked, and was bruised on various parts of his body He brought complaints to the Attorney General of La Matanza and to the National Institute against Discrimination, Xenophobia and Racism, which is part of the Ministry of Justice, Security and Human Rights of Argentina. Neither of these institutions responded to the complaints.
The International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission (IGLHRC) joins Movimiento Antidiscriminatorio de Liberación (MAL) and other organizations in requesting that you contact the Ministry of Justice, Security and Human Rights, the Attorney General of La Matanza, the Director of Human Rights of La Matanza and other authorities, demanding a full and fair investigation into these attacks and calling for the adoption of measures to prevent similar crimes in the future.
Please head over to SexGenderBody for a host of ways to take action on the issue.
National Equality March Listing of Events 10/9-10/11
Friday, October 9th, 2009
Organization and Community
Briefing Meetings throughout the weekend
Times and Locations – TBA
Operation Shine Washington D.C.
Sponsor: Sasha Bruce Youthwork; including Wanda Alston House; and SMYAL,
Time: 12:00 pm to 7:00 pm
Details: TBA
Saturday, October 10th, 2009
8AM-Noon Events
GLAAD Media-Training Workshops
Time: 10-11:30am, 2-3:30pm
Details TBA
HRC education event. Welcome and Action Center
Time: 10:00 am to 3:00 pm
Location: HRC’s Building 1640 Rhode Island Ave. N.W.
Impact Youth Events.
Sponsor: The Trevor Project for ages 13-25
Time: 8:00 am to 12:00 pm
Location: MCC, 474 Ridge Street, N.W.
Lobbying Tactics to Repeal DADT, LGBT veterans history teach-in.
Time: 10 am to 1:00 pm
Location: HRC Building
1640 Rhode Island Ave. NW
Ecumenical Prayer Service,
Time: 11:00 am
Location: Cathedral of St. Matthew the Apostle, 1725 Rhode Island Ave N.W.
Noon – 6pm Events
Courage Campaign Training
Time: 2:00 pm to 6:00 pm
Location and further details TBA
Peaceful Demonstration
Sponsor: Youth Lead / All ages welcome
12:30 pm to 12:35 pm,
Location: Undisclosed
Youth Workshops
Sponsor: SMYAL
Time: 1:30 pm to 6 pm Ages 13-21
Location: MCC, 474 Ridge Street, N.W.
Speak Out Event
Sponsor: Youth Lead / All ages welcome
Time: 3:00-5:00 pm
Location: Union Station Plaza
Wreath Laying
Time: 12:00 pm
Location: Arlington National Cemetery, Tomb of the Unknowns. View Map
This will be a 15 minute ceremony conducted by Lt. Dan Choi, Knightsout.org and other former servicemembers discharged by DADT.
Leonard Matlovich Memorial Service
Time: 2:00 p.m.
Location: Congressional Cemetery
Workshop and Training on Communities of Faith and GLBT Justice Campaigns
Sponsor: MCC
Time: 2:00 p.m.
Location: Foundry United Methodist Church, 16th and P Streets, NW
Milk & Cookies For Families
Time: 3:00-6:00 pm
Location: Madison Hotel Ballroom, 1177 15th Street, N.W.
Equality To End AIDS October 10 HIV/AIDS Rally and Vigil
Time: 5:30-8:30 pm
Location: The Ellipse (by the White House) 17th Street NW & Constitution Avenue N.W.
6pm – 8pm Events
Queer Simchat Torah Celebration
Time: 6:30-9:30 pm
Location: 16th & Q Street NW
Matthew Shepard Foundation Fundraiser
Time: 8:00 pm
Location: Renaissance M Street Hotel, 1143 New Hampshire Ave., NW
Sunday, October 11th, 2009
Servicemembers Cadence Run around War Memorials
Time: 8:00-9:00 am
Location: Starts at WW2 Memorial, 17th St., near Constitution Ave. NW
National Equality March
Time: Noon (12:00 p.m. EST) approximate time
Location: Parade route TBA
National Equality March Rally
Time: Approximately 2:00 p.m.
Location: West Lawn of Capitol Building
Crossposted via Good As You.
Wednesday, September 23
Web Spotlight: Bisexual.com
Sept 27th Nationwide Virtual Phonebank to Preserve Maine Marriage
From 9-5PM on Sunday, Sept 27th you can join the virtual phonebank and talk to Maine voters about voting NO on 1!
Please sign up on the following form, and an organizer will get in touch with you shortly.
Tell the Senate to Pass the Employment Non-Discrimination Act
It is still legal in 29 states to fire someone for their sexual orientation, and in 38 states for gender identity.
The senate has for the first time introduced a fully inclusive ENDA. Please urge your senators to co-sponsor this important piece of legislation.
Diversity Lesson 101: Bisexuality
Definition: Bisexuality is a sexual orientation whereby a person can have physical/emotional attraction towards both males and females.
There are varying degrees of bisexuality, again like all sexual identity, bisexuality lies on a continuum and some bisexuals will be predominantly attracted to one sex while others find their level of attraction is closer to an equal level for both.
What is Biphobia? Unfortunately this is very common among the gay and straight communities who often misunderstand and fear bisexuality. Biphobia is a fear and condemnation of bisexuality and people of the orientation. Common biphobic assumptions are that people who are bisexual are "confused", "selfish", "hedonistic", "promiscuous". Many people are under the false impression that bisexuals cannot remain monogamous, and that they date multiple partners and cannot remain faithful.
How common is Bisexuality? This is a hard one to answer, sexual identity is fluid and lies on a continuum, a large percentage of people regardless of whether they identify as gay/straight have had some degree of same-sex or opposite attraction and this fact would mean they are bisexual to a degree. People who find that their bisexuality is more evident or lifelong consistent make up between 3-5% of the general population. Bisexuality is also common in the animal kingdom with many species exhibiting bisexual behavior and some where the entire species are bisexual such as the binobo monkeys.
Symbols of Bisexuality: The Bisexual pride flag has a deep pink stripe at the top for homosexuality, a blue one on the bottom for heterosexuality, and a purple blend of the pink and blue colors to represent bisexuality. Other symbols include a pink and blue triangle that overlap creating a purple triangle at its intersection. Another popular symbol is the double moon representing mars and venus and showing bisexuals are open to both sexes.
Recommended Books on Bisexuality:
Bi Any Other Name:Bisexual People Speak Out by Loraine Hutchins, Editor & Lani Ka'ahumanuBisexual Websites/Resources:
Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around the World by Robyn Ochs, Editor & Sarah Rowley
The Bisexual Option by Fritz Klein, MD
Bi Men : Coming Out Every Which Way by Ron Suresha and Pete Chvany
Bi America : Myths, Truths, And Struggles Of An Invisible Community by William E. Burleson
Bisexuality in the United States : A Social Science Reader by Paula C. Rodriguez Rust
Bisexuality : The Psychology and Politics of an Invisible Minority by Beth A. Firestein
Current Research on Bisexuality by Ronald C. Fox PhD
American Institute of Bisexuality
Some Video's on Bisexuality:
Happy Bisexual Pride Day!
Today you can come out to your friends, family, co-workers as bisexual.
Learn about the birth and evolution when it comes to the history of the bi movement.
Learn more about the bisexual orientation.
Make a contribution to one of the bisexual organizations such as BiNetUSA, Bialogue, the Bisexual Resource Center,
or the American Institute for Bisexuality.
Join a bisexual social, political, or support group in your area or local LGBT center.
Tuesday, September 22
Word of the Gay: "Bi Pride"
Blog Spotlight: Too Asexy for My Shorts
Demand Algoma District Implement Anti-LGBT Protection Policy
Please join the campaign by calling and email the school and let them know a non-discrimination policy inclusive of sexual orientation and gender identity is necessary.
Algoma District School Board
Education Centre
644 Albert St. E.
Sault Ste. Marie, ON P6A 2K7
Phone: 705-945-7111
Toll Free: 1-888-393-3639
General Information: Susan Vandermolen
Take Action: Hunters Nightclubs Creates Obstacle for Trans Folks
"Hunters Nightclub reluctantly imposed its new ID requirement because cross-dressing prostitutes were advertising on Craigslist and mentioning the establishment, said manager Peter Landorf.(Chicago Tribune). Call Hunters and let them know that you will not stand for discrimination against our transgender brothers and sisters and that an alternative solution is necessary to avoid banning certain clientele.
They're implying they're coming here," said Landorf, whose new rule could cut down on his cross-dressing clientele. "If it is prostitution in any form, that could cost me my liquor license"
Phone: 847-439-8840
Email: nightclub@huntersnightclubs.com
Monday, September 21
Word of the Gay: "Gender Neutral"
Web Spotlight: Just Out
Demand LGBT Inclusive Health Care Reform
Private studies have shown that there exist disparities in health, health care access, and health care outcomes between the general population and LGBT people and families. Employment discrimination and lack of government recognition of same-sex relationships both contribute to these disparities.
The health care reform bill must include LGBT-inclusive policies, and in particular, data collection about the relationship between sexual orientation and gender identity and health care access.
Trans Woman to Face Off Anti-LGBT Sally Kern in Oklahoma
Ms. Novotny on the other hand is actually focused on the issues of constituents and seeks to create change not division within her district.
"We need a representative who values all families in the district, who is dedicated to bringing good jobs to Oklahoma, and who will work tirelessly to make sure our children are getting the best education in our public schools. I believe I have the experience, drive, and determination to do that."The election set for 2010 is in a very conservative district, but if we can out seat an anti-LGBT politician with Ms. Novotny it would be a major not to mention sweet victory.
-Brittany M. Novotny
Let's make it happen, please consider donating to http://www.brittany4hd84.com/ also be sure to follow her on twitter.
Sunday, September 20
Word of the Gay: "Metrosexual"
Seattle LGBT Equality Weekend, October 10 - 11
We are excited to build a grassroots movement for civil rights and equality for all, starting with approving Referendum 71 and keeping domestic partnerships legal. Please, plan to march with us in Seattle on October 11, 2009 at 2:00 pm.
March and Rally
Forty years after the Stonewall Rebellion, we march in solidarity with our brothers and sisters and allies in Washington, DC to demand equal protection in all matters governed by civil law in all 50 states and to show our public support for the Approval of Referendum 71 here in Washington state.
Sunday, October 11
2:00 pm: Volunteer Park, 10th Ave E & E Prospect
5:00 pm: Rally, Federal Courthouse, 7th & Stewart
Thinking Queerly: Community Workshops on LGBT Issues
Community organizers and activists will present a series of workshops on a range of issues affecting the lgbt community including Stonewall and lgbt movement history, homelessness, hate crimes and self defense, lgbt health, Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, lgbt legal issues, Gay-Straight Alliances, marriage equality, and more.
Saturday, October 10
9:30 am to 5 pm
Piggot Auditorium, Seattle University
HIV/AIDS Vigil
As the AIDS pandemic nears its fourth decade, we gather to educate and raise awareness about the continued struggles of people living with HIV/AIDS and their families, friends, and support networks as well as to demand all resources and all funding necessary for prevention, treatment, and a cure.
Saturday, October 10
Starting at 6 pm
Seattle Central Community College South Plaza, Broadway & E Pine
Generation Q Mega Mixer
Come mingle and mix with seasoned leaders and activists of the GLBTQ community at the Generation Q Mega Mixer. Young leaders (25 and under please) will have the opportunity to socialize, learn from, and quite possibly have a dance off with some of the community's most inspiring members in a relaxed social environment.
Sunday, October 11
6:30 pm
Sole Repair Shop, 1001 E Pike
Seattle LGBT Equality Weekend March & Rally
http://nationalmarch.seattleoutprotest.org/
Get involved with one of our planning committees! Contact for more time and details:
March/Rally Committee, March@seattleoutprotest.org
Workshops Committee, Workshops@seattleoutprotest.org
Outreach Committee, Outreach@seattleoutprotest.org
Mixer Committee, Mixer@seattleoutprotest.org
HIV/AIDS Vigil Committee, Vigil@seattleoutprotest.org
Biweekly General Organizing Meetings, please contact whitney@seattleoutprotest.org for time and location.
Crossposted via Seattle Indy Media.
Saturday, September 19
Shameless Self Promotion Sunday
Word of the Gay: "Brokeback"
Website to Support Caster Semenya
Semenya.net has been created to show support for this athlete, and to let her know that she has supporters out there. Leave a message of support for Caster.
Photo courtsey of Erik van Leeuwen of Wikimedia Commons.
Screaming Queens-The Riot At Compton's Cafeteria Documentary
Here's a link to more information about it, and enjoy these clips from the documentary.
This is a great piece of LGBT and trans history rarely shown or heard of.
Crossposted via TransGriot.
Friday, September 18
Open Forum: Heterosexuals Waiting for Gay Marriage
What do you make of this tactic? Are these people just avoiding marriage and using it as an opportunity to look good, or are they sincere? Should straight people avoid marriage, or should we encourage people who can get married to do so while still fighting for the rights for the rest of us? or do you believe we should all just get off this marriage bandwagon and focus on other issues?
Word of the Gay: "Lesbonia"
So You Think You Can Dance Features Same-Sex Dancers
Contact Fox's So You Think You Can Dance to thank them for this segment:
Jason Clark
Vice President, Fox Publicity
Jason.clark@fox.com
Lindsay Luttrell
So You Think You can Dance
(323) 575-6100
National HIV/AIDS and Aging Awareness Day
This day is meant to bring awareness to the growing issue of HIV/AIDS for older people and it is essential to promote testing, safe-sex, and education for this age group.
In 2007, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported persons aged 50 and older accounted for approximately:
10% of new HIV diagnoses
24% of persons living with HIV
33% of persons living with AIDS
19% of all AIDS diagnoses (The AIDS Institute).
NHAADD awareness day pamphlet, fact sheet, and resources.
Find an HIV testing location near you, and get tested regularly!
Thursday, September 17
Word of the Gay: "GWM"
Gulf War Vet Discusses Being Intersex
University of Alaska Students Protest "Ex-Gay" Speaker
The visit is offensive to gay students, and allies because of advertisements around campus with the headline “Gay? Lonely? Confused?” attempting to draw students to the event in hopes of their salvation.
Delgado also parades around using lies and myths about what it means to be gay and claiming that it is a destructive lifestyle.
"Delgado said the homosexual lifestyle leads to promiscuity, abuse, alcoholism and drug abuse" (Newsminer).GSA members and activists have protested with "stop the hate" t-shirts and by handing out literature, and plan to continue doing so for the rest of Mr. Delgados presentations. Mr. Delgado will speak in the Wood Center conference room today at 11:30 a.m., 2 and 5:20 p.m. You can protest him Friday in the Wood Center at 10:30 a.m., 1, 3:30 and 5:30 p.m.
Danes to Support LGBT Equality March
Sunday, October 11, 2009
1:00pm - 3:00pm
American Embassy
Dag Hammarskjölds Allé 24
Copenhagen, Denmark
For more information or to get involved email BrandonMayo@gmail.com
Word of the Gay: "Companion"
Wednesday, September 16
No on 1 Response Ad: "Clearing Up Distortions"
Blog Spotlight: Asexual Curiosities
Tell Congress to Support the Respect for Marriage Act
Go to www.RepealDOMAnow.org and tell your member of Congress to join on as a co-sponsor.
Crossposted via Burning Or Building Bridges in the Community.
Tuesday, September 15
LGBT Center Awareness Day (9.15.09)
Celebrate the day by going to an event at your local LGBT center or share your story about how the center has impacted your life.
Find a center, join a program/club, or donate at the Directory for LGBT centers.